Dealing with difficult people

There’s no escaping the fact that difficult people come into everyone’s lives at one time or another. Difficult means hard to understand, rough in company, stubborn and very often snob. Whoever they are, they can cause anxiety, disappointment, concern, or anger in us and can even cause us to become like them – someone difficult to deal with.
Sometimes the best way to deal with a difficult person is to avoid them altogether – give them wide place. But often our society don’t have that option. The difficult person is someone we simply have to deal with. Sometimes they just feel insecure and often think as if no one understands them. In these instances, paying attention to them, finding out what makes them tick, discovering what motivates them can help us find ways to turn them into a full-fpledged life. Listen to them, take them seriously, treat them with respect and interest. It can change the dynamic of the relationships. The true is that the more we learn about them, the better we understand them. Even if we don't end up liking a person, getting to know him or her can lessen the feelings of tension. So, appraisal of where they're coming from and what makes them tick is an excellent way of dealing with difficult people, but not the only one. The research, which had been done in USA by a group of researchers in 1995, shows that in those situations, there are three options. 1) Try to change ourselves, 2) Try to change the other person, and 3) Resolve to tolerate the situation – basically decide to put up with them.
Try to Change Ourselves. Your first instinct might be, "Why should I be the one to change?" In fact quite often we’ll find that to be an appropriate response!...

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